You’re Great!
You can’t make people like, love, understand, validate, accept or be nice to you. You can’t control other people either. We can spend a life time trying to go above and beyond to get people to “feel” the way we want them to about us. It just won’t work. The good news is that it really doesn’t matter. If you have to WORK to get people to love, understand and accept you…it’s not worth it. If people can’t see how great you are, then it’s their loss, not yours.