Abusers…Run!
Abusers, whether physical or verbal, always push the blame onto the one who is being abused. It sounds like this: I don’t need anger management. She needs to stop doing things that make me lose my temper. If she would just do what I tell her to everything would be fine. I get drunk and hit her because she’s so awful to me. She knows the buttons to push to send me over the edge. If you find yourself in an abusive situation, it’s time to step away. This won’t end well and you deserve better.